Imago Process was Life Changing
When I walked into Len's office, my marriage was all over but the shouting.
Whether or not it
could be repaired was of no interest to me. Len met my reticence
and cynicism with a caring
respect. When I reluctantly agreed to hear how Imago
Therapy worked, I was relieved to hear
that it wasn't going to be another in a long line
of 'he said, she said' couch sitting sessions.
This was a new technology far different than anything in my experience.
From the first time my husband and I engaged in the process it was life changing. It had been
time since all the crap was scraped away and the two of us were laid bare like that to
Throughout the gut wrenching series of sessions, Len was ever supportive, and
never without her
quick intelligence and warm humor. As much as I hated to admit it, Imago
was working and we
suddenly found ourselves fighting to reshape it to fit who we were and
wanted to be.
That was six years ago and now when bumps surface, we have a technology in place to keep them from turning into mountains. We laugh a lot more and our communication is cleaner and more effective than I ever dreamed it could be. Next year we will be celebrating our thirtieth wedding anniversary. And as I've said to Len many times, she is the biggest little person I've ever met.